Dame
An old surname that may come from a personal name or a nickname for a woman-headed household, with origins that are not entirely certain.
The #8,971 most common surname in the United States (2010 Census) — about 1 in every 84,657 Americans shares it.
Etymology
The surname Dame is probably connected either with the Middle English word dame, meaning a woman or lady, or with an older personal name that later survived as a surname. Some 19th-century writers also treated it as a possible shortened or altered form of other names, but they did not agree on a single derivation. Because the evidence is thin and the forms are sparse, the safest explanation is that it is an old English surname of uncertain origin, likely arising as a nickname or from a personal name.
History
Historical references suggest the name was present in medieval England, but the surviving evidence is too scattered to trace one clear family line of origin. It appears in records as a surname in several counties, and later American usage likely reflects immigration from Britain rather than an independent new formation. The small modern U.S. count fits a surname that has remained relatively uncommon.
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Fun fact
In older English, dame could also be used as a respectful title for a woman, which is part of why the surname’s original sense is a little ambiguous.
From the historical record
“dych(e, dich{e, O.E. d{c\ To the soutere of Southwerk, Or of Shordyche dame Emme^ — Piers Plowman, 8707-8, The author of the old ballad 'Jane Shore' believed that Shoreditch owed its name to Edward the Fourth's favourite”
— Surnames of the United Kingdom: a concise etymological dictionary (2 vols in 1)